Indlela Yokwenza Umfana Akhiphe Isidoda Nokuthuthukisa Ubusondezane Benu

Uma wena nomlingani wakho nizama ukukhulelwa, ukuqonda ukuthi ungamenza kanjani umfana achame kungaba kubalulekile. Akukhona nje nje ngokwaneliseka ngokomzimba; kumayelana nokuthuthukisa ubudlelwano obuseduze nokwandisa amathuba okukhulelwa. Kodwa nansi into: uma nizama ukukhulelwa, ukwazi ukuthi ungamenza kanjani amadoda achame empeleni kungenza umehluko. Ngakho asihlole ukuthi ungawenza kanjani umuzwa ube ngcono kini nobabili futhi, ngethemba, nisondele kancane emaphusheni enu okuba nezingane.

Misenani indawo yokuphumula

Isinyathelo sokuqala? Dala indawo enokunethezeka nepholile. Ukucindezeleka nokungezwani akuhambisani nobudlelwano obuseduze. Kungenzeka ungacabangi ukuthi kubalulekile, kodwa ukucindezeleka kungaphazamisa ngokuphelele ukuhlinza kwesidoda. Uma ingqondo yendoda isemoyeni, kuyoba nzima ukuthi igxile, okusho ukuthi, yebo, kuyoba nzima ukuba ifinyelele esicongweni sokuchama [1]. Ukwenza igumbi libe mnene, lifudumele futhi lithule kungasiza kakhulu kulokho.

Iseluleko esiphezulu: Zama ukunciphisa ukukhanya, uvuthe ikhandlela, noma udlale umculo omnene. Noma yini enenza nobabili nizizwe nikhululekile.

Ukushukumiseka ngokomzimba kubalulekile

Ukuthintana ngokomzimba kubaluleke kakhulu uma uzama ukuthola ukuthi ungamenza kanjani indoda ichame ngokushesha. Ezinye izingxenye zomzimba zizwela kakhulu kunezinye, njengendawo ephakathi kwamasende nendunu (i-perineum) futhi, kunjalo, namasende uqobo. Ukudlala nalezi zindawo ngesikhathi usebenzisa i-lubricant yangasese enhle—eyimngane wokuzala futhi equkethe izinto ezifana nekhalisiyamu ne-magnesium—kungenza umehluko omkhulu. Ukuthambisa okwengeziwe kusiza nesidoda ukuthi sihambe kalula siye eqandeni, okuyikho enikhombe kulokho [2].

Khuphula ukukhiqiza inzalo ngemisoco efanele

Ukudla nondle? Yebo, kubalulekile. Amanye ama-vitamin namaminerali angathuthukisa ukuzala kowesilisa futhi enze umehluko omkhulu endleleni yokumsiza ukuthi akhiphe inhlalu kalula. Izakhi zokudla ezifana ne-zinc, selenium kanye ne-L-arginine zibalulekile kakhulu empilweni yesidoda. I-zinc ibalulekile ekwakhekeni kwesidoda nasekugcineni amazinga e-testosterone, kanti i-selenium isebenza njengesihlangu, ivikela isidoda ekulimaleni [3]. L-arginine? Ithuthukisa ukuhamba kwegazi ukuya ezithweni zokuzala, okwenza ukuma kwepipi kube namandla nokukhishwa kwenhlalu kube bushelelezi [4].

Amahomoni Asebenza Nawo

Ukugcina amahomoni elinganiselwe kubalulekile kokubili ukukhishwa kwenhlalu okunempilo nokuthuthukisa impilo yesidoda. Ama-vitamin njengeVitamin D neVitamin B6 asiza ukulawula lawa mahomoni, okubaluleke kakhulu emadodeni [5]. I-Vitamin D isekela amazinga e-testosterone, kanti i-B6 isiza ukulinganisa amahomoni okuzala. Uma amazinga amahomoni endoda ephazamisekile, kungaphazamisa kokubili ukukhishwa kwayo kwenhlalu nekhwalithi yesidoda. Ukugcina lawo mahomoni elawulwa kusiza ukuqinisekisa ukuthi isidoda siqinile futhi sikulungele ukuhlangana neqanda.

Ukuxhumana Kubaluleke Konke

Kungase kuzwakale kuyinto ehlekisayo, kodwa ikhono lokuxoxa ngokukhululekile nozakwenu ngalokho okunizwisa kahle (noma okungakwenzi) kubalulekile. Ukuxhumana kuholela ekuqondaneni kangcono, okungenza lonke ulwazi lube mnandi kakhulu. Ungazithiyi ukukhuluma ngalokho okuthandayo, okusebenzayo nokungasebenzi. Lokho kungakwenza kube lula ngempela uma nizama ukuthola ukuthi ningamsiza kanjani indoda ikhiphe inhlalu masinyane nangokunethezeka [6]. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuba nokuqondana ngokomzwelo nje kuqinisa ubuhlobo benu.

Umongo Wendaba

Ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano benu ngokocansi nokufunda ukuthi ungawenza kanjani amadoda akhisele akusizi nje kuphela ukuthi nixhumane ngokujulile—kungasiza futhi nasekukhiqizeni inzalo. Ngokugxila ekudaleni indawo ephumulele, ukusebenzisa ukucasula komzimba okufanele, ukwenezela ama-nutrients afanele, nokuxhumana ngokuvulekile, ningakhulisa amathuba enu okukhulelwa. Izinguquko ezincane endleleni yokuphila nobudlelwano benu bangasese zingaletha umehluko omkhulu uma nizama ukukhulelwa. Uma nifuna uketshezi lokuthambisa olunemvelo kakhulu ngesikhathi sobudlelwano benu bangasese uketshezi lokuthambisa lukakhokho luwukhetho oluhle kakhulu.

Imibuzo ejwayele ukubuzwa

Ingabe ingcindezi ithinta ukukhishela?

Yebo, ingcindezi ingakwenza kube nzima ukuthi amadoda akhisele ngoba iyaphazamisa futhi yehlise injabulo yocansi iyonke.

Ingabe amavithamini angasiza ngempela ekuzaleni emadodeni?

Yebo! Ama-nutrients afana ne-zinc, i-selenium, neVithamini D angathuthukisa ikhwalithi yesidoda nempilo yokuzala.

Yiziphi izindlela zomzimba ezinhle kakhulu zokwenza amadoda akhisele ngokushesha?

Ukukhuthaza izingxenye ezibucayi ezifana ne-perineum namatende, ngesikhathi ushintsha indlela othinta ngayo, kungasiza ukuthi indoda ikhisele ngokushesha kakhulu.

Ukuxhumana kubaluleke kangakanani ekuthuthukiseni ukwaneliseka ngokocansi?

Kubaluleke kakhulu! Ingxoxo eqotho ngalokho okuzwayo kukuhle (nalokho okungakuhle) ingenza ucansi lujabulise kakhulu nobabili partner.

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