Ukukhishwa kwesidoda ngaphandle kwe-orgasm: Ukuqonda ukuxhumana okuphukile

Ukuze indoda ibe nokufutha isidoda ngaphandle kokufinyelela i-orgasm kungase kudide futhi kwesabise abaningi. Lokhu okwenzeka, okuchazwa kwesinye isikhathi njengokukhishwa kwesidoda okungenalo lelo gagasi elijwayelekile lokujabula, kuphikisa inkolelo yesikhathi eside yokuthi ukufutha isidoda (i-ejaculation) ne-orgasm bangamawele angahlukaniseki wobulili besilisa. Empeleni, umzimba uwaphatha njengama-reflex amabili ahlobene kodwa azimele. Ukufutha isidoda ikakhulukazi kuwumcimbi womshini oholwa umgogodla: imithambo yezinzwa ye-sympathetic ivusa ukuncipha kwemithambo ethwala isidoda (vas deferens), ama-seminal vesicles, ne-prostate, okuphonsa isidoda sidlule ku-urethra. I-orgasm yona, ngokuphambene, iwukuhlangana okuningiliziwe kwemizwa nemizwa yokujabula okwakhiwa ezikhungweni zobuchopho ze-limbic nezomvuzo ngemva kokuthi zithole izimpawu ezisheshayo ezivela ezinzwaneni zendawo yase-pelvic. 

Uma leyo mizwa ibuthakathaka—ngenxa yokulimala kwezinzwa, imiphumela emibi yemithi, ukushintsha kwamahomoni, noma ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo—ubuchopho bungase bungabhalisi noma yimuphi umuzwa wokujabula yize i-reflex yomgogodla isebenza ngesikhathi. Njengoba igebe phakathi kwale nqubo ngokuvamile likalwa ngemizuzwana emincane kakhulu, iningi lamadoda alikuboni lokhu kuhlukaniseka kuze kube yilapho okuthile kungenelela. Lapho kwenzeka, lolu lwazi lungadala ukukhathazeka ngokusebenza, ukuzala, noma impilo engaphansi. Ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kuhlukaniseka kunencazelo ye-physiology kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokufuna ukuhlolwa okufanele nokubuyisela ukusebenza kobulili okunelisayo. Ngenhlanhla, izimo eziningi ziphendula kahle ezinyathelweni eziqondiswe ngqo [1].

I-Physiology Yokukhishwa Nenjabulo

Ukufutha isidoda (i-ejaculation) i-reflex eholwa umgogodla nemithambo yezinzwa esemaphethelweni, egcina ngokuncipha okujwayelekile okuphonsa isidoda sidlule ku-urethra. I-orgasm yona, ngokuphambene, iwukuchazwa kobuchopho kwaleyo micimbi yamathambo, ethonywa ama-neurotransmitter afana ne-dopamine, i-oxytocin, nama-endorphin. Uma impendulo yemizwa evela ku-pelvic floor ithotyelwe, noma i-chemistry yobuchopho ithotshisiwe okwesikhashana, umzimba ungawuqeda umsebenzi womshini kuyilapho ingqondo ingabhalisi noma iyiphi i-euphoria.

Izimbangela Zokwelashwa Ezingaba Khona

Izimo eziningana zomzimba ziyaziwa ngokuphazamisa ingxenye ye-orgasm. I-neuropathy ehlobene nesifo sikashukela inganciphisa umuzwa wendawo yobulili, kuyilapho i-multiple sclerosis noma ukulimala komgogodla kungaphazamisa imigudu ethwala imisindo emnandi inyukela phezulu. Ezinye izindlela zokuhlinza i-prostate ziphinde ziqondise kabusha imicu yezinzwa, kuholele kuma-orgasm “omile” noma athulisiwe. Imithi esetshenziselwa umfutho wegazi ophezulu, ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, noma i-prostate enkulu ngokuvamile ishintsha amazinga ama-neurotransmitter noma ithoni yamathambo athambile, idale isimo lapho isidoda siphuma kodwa ukwanda kwe-orgasm kungafiki [2].

Izinto Zengqondo Nesitayela Sokuphila

Ukukhathazeka ngokusebenza, ingcindezi eqhubekayo, nengxabano yobudlelwano engaxazululiwe nakho kungahlukanisa ukukhishwa nokujabula. Uhlelo lwezinzwa lwe-sympathetic, olukhuphuka ngesikhathi sokukhathazeka, lungacindezela izinqubo ze-parasympathetic ezisekela umuzwa we-orgasm. Ukuphuza utshwala ngokweqile, izidakamizwa zokuzijabulisa, nokuntuleka kokulala nakho kwehlisa ukusabela kohlelo lwezinzwa oluphakathi, okwenza kube lula ukuthi i-reflex yamathambo isebenze ngaphandle kokuba ubuchopho bubhalise umvuzo.

Izindlela Zokuxilonga

Ukuhlolwa kuqala ngomlando ophelele wobulili, kuhlanganiswe nokuqala kwenkinga, ukuthi yenzeka kangaki, kanye nanoma yiziphi ezinye izifo noma imithi ekhishwayo njengamanje. Ukuhlolwa komzimba kubheka umuzwa wendawo yobulili nokwakheka kahle kwe-pelvic floor. Ukuhlolwa kwegazi kungabheka ukungalingani kwamahomoni njengokwehla kwe-testosterone noma ukuphazamiseka kwe-thyroid, kuyilapho izifundo zokudlulisela izimpawu zezinzwa noma i-penile biothesiometry kuhlola imigudu yemizwa. Uma kusolakala izimbangela zengqondo, imibuzo eqinisekisiwe ingalinganisa ukukhathazeka, ukucindezeleka kwengqondo, noma ukudangala kobudlelwano [3].

Amasu Okwelapha Nokuzisiza

Ukubhekana nokufutha isidoda ngaphandle kwe-orgasm kuvame ukudinga indlela ehlanganisiwe. Ukwenza impilo yonke ibe ngcono ngokuzivocavoca njalo, ukudla okulinganiselayo, nokuhlanzeka kokulala kuthuthukisa umsebenzi wemithambo negazi kanye nezinzwa. Ukunciphisa noma ukushintsha imithi ephazamisa impendulo yezocansi, ngaphansi kokuqondiswa udokotela, kungabuyisela ingxenye ye-orgasm. I-physiotherapy ye-pelvic floor iqinisa imisipha ebamba iqhaza ekuncipheni okujabulisayo, yandise impendulo yemizwa. Amasu asekelwe ku-mindfulness afundisa amadoda ukulalela imizwa emincane yomzimba, okungenzeka andise ukuqaphela i-orgasm.

Imithi efana nama-dopamine agonists noma ukusetshenziswa kwezinye izidambisi-zinhlungu zengqondo (antidepressants) ngaphandle kwelebuli yemvume kungahlolwa uma kutholakala ukuntuleka kwama-neurotransmitter. Ezimeni ezihlotshaniswa nokuntuleka kwama-androgen, ukwelashwa ngokufaka i-testosterone kungakhuphula isifiso sobulili nokusabela kwezinzwa. Ezimeni zezinzwa (neurogenic), amadivayisi akhuthaza izinzwa athi abonisa ithemba ezifundweni zokuqala, ebuyisela isixhumanisi phakathi kwama-reflex omgogodla nezikhungo zobuchopho zokujabula [4].

Ngamacebo asebenzayo okuthi ungafinyelela i-orgasm kanjani ngaphandle kokufutha isidoda, nakanjani hlola umhlahlandlela wethu othi "How To Orgasam Without Ejaculation? Tips & Techniques" ukuze uthole izeluleko zochwepheshe zokubumbanisa ukukhishwa nenjabulo.

Ukubheka Ukuvinjelwa Nekucwaningwa Okuzayo

Ukuvimbela kuqala ngenhlalakahle yonke. Ukulawula ushukela egazini, ukunciphisa utshwala, ukuhlala uzivocavoca, nokuyeka ugwayi kuvikele izinzwa ezincane ezithwala imizwa. Ukuhlolwa okuvamile kwezokwelapha kungathola izinkinga zamahomoni noma zemithambo yegazi ngaphambi kokuba zehlise injabulo. Khonamanjalo, ososayensi basebenzisa i-functional MRI ukuze balandele indlela izingxenye zobuchopho ezihlela ngayo ukukhishwa nomvuzo, ulwazi olukhuthaza amadivayisi okushukumisa izinzwa kanye nezinhlelo ze-smartphone ze-biofeedback ezihlose ukubuyisela ukuvumelana. Njengoba ama-dataset ekhula, odokotela balindele amazinga obungozi enzelwe umuntu ngamunye abonise izimpawu zokuqala kakhulu futhi aphakamise izinyathelo ezibanzi zokuphila, ukwelulekwa, noma imithi, ugcine i-reflex nomuzwa behlangene.

Uma unabugagu bokwazi ukuthi yini ebangela i-orgasm eyomile nomthelela wayo empilweni yokuzala, nakanjani bheka i-athikili yethu ethi "What Causes a Dry Orgasm and What It Means for Your Reproductive Health" ukuze ujule kakhulu kulesi sihloko.

Okubalulekile Ekugcineni

Noma izehlo ezihlukene zingaba yinto engeyimbi, ukufutha isidoda okuqhubekayo ngaphandle kwe-orgasm kudinga ukuhlolwa kochwepheshe. Lesi simo singase sibe uphawu lokuqala lwesifo se-metabolic noma sezinzwa, kanti ukungenelela kusenesikhathi kuvame ukuletha imiphumela engcono yezocansi kanye nempilo jikelele. Ukwelulekwa kwababambisene kungaba usizo olukhulu, kuqinisekisa ukuxhumana okuvulekile nokwehlisa ingcindezi yokusebenza, okuthi khona-ke kusekele ukubuyiselwa kobudlelwano obunelisayo.

Ngokuqonda ukuvumelanisa okunembile phakathi kwama-reflex omzimba nendlela ubuchopho buchaza ngayo injabulo, amadoda angathatha izinyathelo ezinolwazi zokubuyisela zombili izingxenye zokugcwaliseka kobulili. Ukuhlukaniswa kokufutha isidoda ne-orgasm akuvamile ukuthi kube unomphela, futhi ngokuxilongwa okunembe, ukunakekelwa okwenzelwe umuntu, iningi labantu libuyisela ulwazi oluvumelanisiwe nolwanelisayo.

Izinkomba

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