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Indlela yokuba umngane owesekile kodwa ongacindezeli kakhulu

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Ngozithola muva nje ukuthi umngane wami omkhulu unenkinga yokuba nenkinga yokukhulelwa. Wake waba nokuphuphuma kwesisu kanye nezinkinga zokungabi nenzalo kusukela lapho — lokhu sekuqhubeke iminyaka emibili, kodwa ungumuntu ozithandele futhi ungitshele ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule kuphela. Ngazizwa kabi ukuthi udlula kulo mkhuba futhi-ke ngamshela ukuthi wamukelekile ukukhuluma nami ngakho noma yinini.

Selokhu kwenzeka lokho, akasikaze asive ngokwakhe lesi sihloko, futhi kunzima kimi ukwazi ukuthi nini nokuthi kanjani ngimbuze ukuthi kuhamba kanjani. Okokugcina engambuza ngakho, cishe enyangeni edlule, wayeqhubeka nomjikelezo we-in vitro. Akasikaze aphinde akhulume ngakho kusukela lapho, futhi angazi ukuthi kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukuthi kutholakale ukuthi uphumelele yini noma cha. Ngelukuluku lapho sihlangane kwasemini izolo, kwaba nesikhashana sokuthula engxoxweni, sengathi wayefuna ukusho okuthile kodwa akazange, mina angitholanga indlela yokukukhipha ngaphandle nje kokuphuma ngenkulumo ethi, “Pho izinto zengane zihamba kanjani?” Ngingaba kanjani umngane omsekelayo, kodwa ongaphezi futhi ongacindezeli kakhulu?

Umngane

Useduze kakhulu lapha — ulalele, uyamkhathalela, ufinyelela emizweni yakhe. Lokho kuzokusa cishe ngaphezulu kwesigamu sendlela, ngakho yethembise lokho. Into eyodwa engiyiphakamisayo ukuthi esikhundleni sokuqala uthi, “Pho izinto zengane zihamba kanjani?” owawusuke uzicabangela ngaso ngesikhathi sokuthula kokugcina, sebenzisa isikhathi esilandelayo uthi, “Ngicabanga ngawe kakhulu futhi ngihlale ngizibuza ukuthi izinto zokuzama ukuba nabantwana zihamba kanjani, kodwa angiqiniseki ukuthi ngingakubuza kanjani, noma ngabe kufanele ngikubuza yini. Ungathanda yini ukuthi ngikubuze ngezikhathi ezithile, noma ukhethe ukuthi ube nguwe olokhu ukuletha lapho usukulungele?” Mayelana: Umngane: Ngingaba ngumngane wakho; ngisesimeni esiseduze ncamashi nesakho. Njengazo zonke izinto ezigcwele ubuhlungu obujulile nemigede yomzwelo, kwesinye isikhathi ufuna ukukhuluma ngakho, kwesinye isikhathi awufuni.

Kodwa mina angikaze ngicasuke uma umuntu engibuza ukuthi izinto zimi kanjani. Uma ngifuna ukwabelana, ngiyakwenza. Uma ngingafuni, nginika impendulo emfushane bese ngishintsha isihloko. Iseluleko sikaCarolyn sihle: Mbuzise ukuthi yena ufisa ukubuheka kanjani le ndaba. Inqubo ye-in vitro iyindlela enzima kakhulu. Igcwele ithemba, bese uma ingasebenzi, usizi lungaba lukhulu kakhulu. Qhubeka nje ube umngane omuhle, okuyinto engathi usuyiyo.

Ongaziwa

Ngiyabonga ngokwabelana, futhi ngikufisela inhlanhla. Mayelana: Umngane: Ngivame ukubuza abantu ukuthi ngingabasiza kanjani ngendlela ebawusizo kakhulu. Lapho udadewethu edlula kwesehlukaniso sakhe, ngamtshela ukuthi ngingakhona njengomuntu azosho kuye izinto azizwa, noma ngingamvumela nje angakhulumi ngakho uma lokho ekufunayo. Bazise ukuthi ulungele ukuba yindawo ephephile, noma ngabe lokho kusho indawo yokukhalela, noma indawo lapho bengasafuni ukucabanga/ukukhuluma ngalokho. Futhi, baziise ukuthi bangashintsha umqondo wabo noma yinini uma befuna, kuhle lokho.

Ongaziwa 2

Ngiyakuthanda lokhu, nakho, ngiyabonga. Okufanayo kulezi zindlela zonke: kugxile kumngane, futhi kucacile. Ufuna ukumnikeza izinketho, hhayi ukwengeza umthwalo kumngane wakho osevele esindwayo.

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