Kubukeka kanjani ukuqhafaza nokuthi umbala muni wesidoda sabesifazane?
Wake wazibuza ukuthi ukuchama kubukeka kanjani noma waba nenhloso yokwazi ngomqondo wombala wesidoda sabesifazane? Le yimibuzo abaningi abayibuzayo, ikakhulukazi uma becabanga ngokuzala noma nje bezama ukuqonda imizimba yabo kangcono. Kukhona okuningi okumele kuchazwe lapha, kusukela ekutheni ukuchama kwabesilisa nabesifazane kubukeka kanjani kuya emibaleni ebandakanyekayo. Ake singene kuwo lokhu manje!
Ukuchama Kubukeka Kanjani?
Ake siqale ngezisisekelo. Lapho sikhuluma ngokuthi ukuchama kubukeka kanjani kwabesilisa, ngokuvamile sisho ukukhishwa koketshezi olujiyile, olumhlophe—okungesidoda. Lesi sikhishwa siqukethe ikakhulukazi isidoda namanye uketshezi asiza ukugcina isidoda siphilile futhi siyakwazi ukuzula. Sivame ukuba nobunjalo obunamathelayo, okufana nejeli, kanti umbala usuke ufana kakhulu—umhlophe noma mpunga kancane. Kodwa wawazi? Ngezinye izikhathi umbala ungashintsha ngokuya ngokuthi udla ini, uphuza amanzi amaningi kangakanani, noma impilo yakho imile kanjani. Isibonelo:
- Umbala Ophuzi Noma Oluhlaza Kancane: Lokhu kungasho ukuthi kukhona umchamo oxubekile, noma mhlawumbe kukhona ukutheleleka [1].
- Umbala Ompinki Noma Obomvu Kancane: Lokhu kungenzeka uma kukhona igazi elincane esidodeni, elingase libe yimbangela yokuba nengcindezi ephezulu yegazi noma uhlobo oluthile lokucasuka noma ukulimala [2].
Kwabesifazane, ukuchama kubukeka kwehluke kancane. Lapho owesifazane echama, kungaba uketshezi olucacile noma olunombala onjengobisi oluphuma ku-urethra ngesikhathi sokufinyelela ekugcineni. Abanye bakubiza ngokuthi ukuchama kwabesifazane, futhi lukhiqizwa ama-gland e-Skene (ngezinye izikhathi abizwa ngokuthi “i-prostate yabesifazane”) [3]. Ngokungafani nokuchama kwesilisa, akukho sidoda kulolu ketshezi, kodwa luna ama-enzyme namaprotheni afana nalawo atholakala ekuchameni kwesilisa. Inani lalo lingahluka kakhulu—abanye besifazane bangase babe namaconsi ambalwa kuphela, kanti abanye bangase bakhiphe inani elibonakala kakhulu.
Umbala Wesidoda Sabesifazane Nokuthi Umbala Wesidoda Sabesifazane Unjani?
Manje sekufika lapho izinto ziba nthuthwane khona. Abantu abaningi bayazibuza ngombala wezidoda zabesifazane futhi babuze, umbala muni wezidoda zabesifazane? Okokuqala, ake sikucacise lokhu: abesifazane abakhiqizi izidoda. Uma abantu bekhuluma "ngesidoda sabesifazane," bavame ukubhekisela kuketshezi okukhipha umzimba ngesikhathi owesifazane ejuluka (female ejaculation). Lolu ketshezi ngokuvamile lucacile noma lube mhlophe kancane. Umbala ungashintsha kuye ngezinto ezifana nokuthi uphuza amanzi amaningi kangakanani, ukudla kwakho, noma isimo sempilo yakho jikelele [4].
Uma uzibuza ukuthi, "Ingabe kukhona umbala othile wezidoda zabesifazane?"—akunjalo ngempela. Uma uketshezi lubonakala luphuzi noma lunuka ngendlela engajwayelekile, kungaba uphawu lwesifo noma into edinga ukunakwa. Ngakho, nakuba umqondo "wezidoda zabesifazane" ungase udide, empeleni kukhulunywa ngokuzwa nokuthi siwaqonda kanjani ama-fluid emvelo akhiqizwa imizimba yethu nokuthi angashintsha kanjani.
Uma unelukuluku lokwazi ukuthi inqubo ye-sperm vs egg ifaka kanjani isandla ekukhuleliseni, funda lesi sihloko ukuze uqonde kangcono izindima zombili ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Yini Ethinta Indlela Isidoda Esibukeka Ngayo?
Kukhona izinto eziningi ezingashintsha indlela isidoda esibukeka ngayo kubo bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane. Nansi incazelo emfushane:
- Ukudla Nokuthuthukisa Uketshezi Emzimbeni: Lokho okudlayo nokuthi uphuza amanzi amaningi kangakanani kungashintsha kakhulu umbala nobuningi (ukushuba) kwesidoda sakho. Awuphuzi amanzi anele? Ungase uqaphele izinguquko.
- Izinkinga Zempilo: Ezinye izifo, njengezifo ezithathelwanayo noma ngisho nezinkinga zesibindi, zingaba nomthelela. Isibonelo, uma kukhona inkinga esibindini, isifo sohudo (jaundice) singenza uketshezi lomzimba lubonakale luphuzi kancane [5].
- Izinguquko Zamahomoni: Amahomoni akho ayingxenye enkulu yokuthi umzimba wakho uzilawula kanjani. Uma kukhona ukungalingani kwama-hormone, lokho ngempela kungathinta ukuthi isidoda sakho sibukeka kanjani.
Uma unelukuluku lokwazi ukuthi ishadi lombala ojwayelekile wezidoda libukeka kanjani nokuthi imibala ehlukene ingasho ukuthini, ungangabazi ukufunda lo mhlahlandlela onemininingwane ngomthunzi wombala wezidoda.
Imicabango Yokugcina
Manje usunokuqonda okungcono ngokuthi kubukeka kanjani uma umuntu eqeda ngesikhathi socansi kanye nendaba yombala wesidoda sabesifazane. Khumbula, indlela i-ejaculate ebukeka ngayo ingahluka kakhulu, futhi ukudla kwakho, izinga lokumanzi emzimbeni, nempilo yakho iyonkana kuvame ukukuthinta. Uma uzama ukukhulelwa, ukuba nolwazi ngale miphumela kungakusiza uqonde kangcono umzimba wakho futhi uthathe izinyathelo ezifanele zokuqhubekela ekukhulelweni okuyimpumelelo.
Imibuzo ejwayelekile ukubuzwa
Kubukeka kanjani lapho umuntu eya ocansini eqeda (cumming)?
Emadodeni, ukuhlela (ukuchama ngesidoda) ngokuvamile kuhilela uketshezi olujiyile, olumhlophe olubizwa ngokuthi isidoda (semen). Kwabesifazane, kungavela njengoketshezi olucacile noma olufana nobisi olukhipha ngesikhathi se-orgasm.
Ingabe kukhona okuthiwa isidoda sabesifazane?
Cha empeleni—abesifazane abakhiqizi isidoda. "Female sperm" yigama nje abantu abathile abalisebenzisayo ukuchaza ukuqhamuka kwabesifazane, okungenawo amaseli esidoda.
Iyini imibala yesidoda sabesifazane?
Uketshezi olukhishwa owesifazane (female ejaculate) ngokuvamile lucacile noma lube mhlophe njengobisi. Alunawo ngempela "umbala" ofana nowesidoda samadoda ngoba akusiwo isidoda sangempela.
Ngabe umbala we-ejaculate ungakhombisa inkinga yezempilo?
Yebo, izinguquko kumbala noma kunuka kwe-ejaculate zingase zikhombise ukutheleleka noma ezinye izinkinga zempilo, ngakho kuwumqondo omuhle ukubonana nodokotela.
Izinkomba
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- WebMD. Men's Health. Kutholakala ku: https://www.webmd.com/men/blood-in-semen-hematospermia-causes-symptoms-tests-treatments
- Wimpissinger, Florian & Stifter, Karl & Grin, Wolfgang & Stackl, Walter. (2007). I-Prostate yabesifazane ibuyekezwa: i-perineal ultrasound nezifundo zamakhemikhali zokuqubuka kwabesifazane. The journal of sexual medicine. Kutholakala ku: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/6204458_The_Female_Prostate_Revisited_Perineal_Ultrasound_and_Biochemical_Studies_of_Female_Ejaculate
- Wimpissinger F, Springer C, Stackl W. Ucwaningo lwe-inthanethi lomhlaba wonke: ukuqhamuka kwabesifazane kunomthelela omuhle ezimpilweni zocansi zabesifazane namaqabane abo. BJU Int. Kutholakala ku: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23350685/
- Hally SS. Ukudla okunomsoco empilweni yokuzala. J Nurse Midwifery. Kutholakala ku: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/9871379/
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